People settle in another country for very different reasons: a post to take up, a new life, someone they are following, work they could no longer find at home, a country they had to leave. Some really chose it, others much less so. Whatever the reason for leaving, life elsewhere can bring a great deal of happiness. And yet, after a few months, you catch yourself raising your voice over the shopping, the paperwork, a sentence that came out wrong. You surprise yourself, you don